Dear Friends -
It shouldn’t surprise us that Mother’s Day and Father’s Day are separated by only a month. Just as we must honor both our Mother and Father, the role of fathers in raising their children is as important as the role of their mother.
Think about the arctic tern. Each year this amazing bird sets out on the longest migratory journey attempted by a bird. It flies from the top of the world to the bottom. Even more amazing, baby terns are hatched in the arctic north, and when they have grown old enough to take care of themselves their parents leave them and begin their migration to the antarctic south. For many weeks the fledglings fend for themselves, growing, developing the wing muscles and endurance they will need for the long flight ahead. Then they leave the only home they have ever known and begin a journey over a course they have never seen to the opposite end of the world. They have no guide and yet they arrive. God has designed these birds with an internal compass we do not understand.
I tell you that story because I want to impress upon you how very different human children are. God has not designed human babies to fend for themselves, and he has not instilled in them an instinctual compass to lead their life’s journey without a guide.
Has God mistreated human children? Not at all. God gave humans something more wonderful than the migratory instinct of the tern. He gave us parents.
As amazing as the migration of the arctic tern is, the course humans must navigate in life is more complex. It involves learning to love our neighbors and not care only for our own needs. It involves learning that right and wrong are real things, and not just the invention of individual desire, and it involves learning to choose what is right. Human navigation involves learning to forgive and to be forgiven, and then to receive the grace to change and grow into a better person. It involves learning that there is one God and Creator of us all, and that we can know him through his Son Jesus Christ.
You see, humans must navigate between two poles as distant from each other as the arctic and antarctic. We begin as sinners. By God’s grace, we can be changed into the image of Christ. And God has given us parents to instruct us on the way.
Dads, you have an amazingly important job. And it is not beyond your ability, because God wants you to succeed. Set your heart on this task: to become the compass that guides your children on the first steps of their journey in learning the love, and grace of God. You are God’s gift, even more capable than the instinct he designed into the arctic tern.
Continue in Grace,
~ Pastor Byron
Dear Friends -
May is Mother’s Day Month, and Mother’s Day makes us think of the most essential job of moms (and dads) - the raising of our children.
When asked what we want for our children, parents often say they want their children to be happy. They want their children to be successful, to live a balanced life, to contribute to society and to build loving relationships with their own spouse and children.
The question is, How do parents help their kids reach these goals?
The only sure anchor for a full, abundant and eternal life is a vital relationship with Jesus Christ. A faith relationship with Christ is a harbor for our soul. And it lays out the way we are to live daily life. That’s true for children and adults.
If we want our kids to reach the dream, WE NEED TO PASS ALONG A PASSION FOR JESUS CHRIST. However, we can’t give what we don’t possess. That means parents need to have and live a personal passion for Christ.
I’m not only talking about passing along good morals: things like being generous, having compassion, serving others, or reserving sex until marriage. These are important results of a relationship with Christ, but they aren’t the relationship itself.
I’m talking about passing along a love for Christ and his kingdom. Without that love for Christ, even our good morals miss the mark. We can’t be “good” as God would have us be “good” and ignore the God who made us to be “good” or the Savior who transforms us.
Joshua 24:15 reads “...as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” Is that the cry of your heart? Is that the tone of your household? You see, if you don’t live your faith your kids will learn that faith is just for kids. After all, if the most important adults in their lives don’t display it, why should they?
So I’m asking moms (and dads) to examine what you do. Do your children see you attend worship, and Sunday School, or is that just a kid drop-off? Do your children hear you pray, or is that something only they do before bedtime? Do your children see your love and passion for Jesus Christ or do they see you ignoring the things of faith in your own daily behavior?
Mothers (and fathers) have a great commission from God, to go into their home, and live and teach the good news, so that their children will love Christ and do all he taught us.
My prayer this May is that our passion for Christ will ignite into a great fire that the next generation will see and embrace.
Dear Friends -
Carol Kuykendall tells a poignant story of the death of her close friend.
“Doubt sometimes wins over faith in my life, too... like the day my friend Lois died. The ringing telephone sliced through the early morning darkness, and jolted me awake. The clock said 4:22. I knew that Lois’ struggle was finished. The day before, I had sat by her bed and told her good-bye. ‘I’ll be right there,’ I told her husband. But I took my time... reluctantly trying to connect the stark word death with Lois. The two words still didn’t go together as I got in the car. By the time I reached her neighborhood, the first fringe of dawn glowed on the horizon, and I pulled over to watch the sunrise. As the light overcame the darkness, I began to remember what Jesus said and did. He didn’t promise that a good life was a long life - He was only 33 years old when He died. What matters is how we purposefully choose to live each day. And He didn’t promise a life without suffering, but He promised to walk with us and give us strength sufficient to meet our challenges. And most importantly, He didn’t say that death is an end, but a triumphant new beginning because we have eternal life in Him. As I watched the night turn into day, death gave way to a victorious new beginning.” (1990 Daily Guidepost, p.113)
Doubt does sometimes win-out over our faith. We struggle with the difficulties in life, especially the death of a loved one. We’ve had that happen in our congregation this year, of course. It has happened to members’ extended family
of our congregation. In every case we struggle. We feel that the stark word death shouldn’t be connected with any of them.
There was a dark dawn 2000 years ago in Jerusalem. Friends walked through the dark city streets to the place of death, struggling to connect that stark word with the one they loved.
As the sun began to pink the eastern sky, they reached the place. The ground under their feet began to shake. It was an earthquake to change the world. The Son of God broke the bonds of death, and rose to life that never ends. As the sun began to overcome darkness, the darkness of death was overcome by life in Christ.
Paul wrote, “Christ has indeed been raised from the dead,” (1 Co 15:20). He states the fact. Christ is alive. But he goes on. It’s not only Christ, it’s you, it’s me, it’s all who belong to Christ. “Christ has indeed been raised from the dead, the firstfruits of those who have fallen asleep.” If Jesus is first , there must be more to come.
The days are longer now but dawn isn’t too early. Watch the sun come up and chase away the darkness and remember the Son has come up and brought the light of Life.
March 1, Ash Wednesday, is the beginning of Lent, that 40 day season that leads us to Easter Sunday. For some Lent is a powerful spiritual experience. For others it’s a strange church thing that’s mostly about not eating chocolate till the Easter bunny shows up.
The word Lent is said to come from an old Anglo-Saxon word for spring. And Lent certainly coincides with spring. It’s message is illustrated in the hope of new life we all anticipate as spring gets near.
We’ve had a strange winter; cold, warm, cold again. Even as I am writing the snow is gone and the temp is in the 50s. It feels wonderful! It’s still early though. The snow may return, but now snow is fighting a losing battle, because the sun is making its comeback. Snow depends on dark and cold. Light and warmth are taking over. From the cold and death of winter, life is returning.
What a powerful picture of what God wants to do in the human soul. John R. W. Stott writes, “Christianity is a religion of salvation...” (Basic Christianity, p. 15). In Christ God saves us from the death of sin and gives us new life.
The path to experience new life requires us to face two realities: our sin and our mortality. Just as spring overcomes snow, life in Christ overcomes our sin and death. We need to face our sin to find new life. Lent can help us do that in a redemptive way.
While serving my first church, I led a Bible study on God’s daily presence. Each week began with an evaluation of our present relationship with Christ. We marked our position on a chart, drew a time line, or sat in the sanctuary; close to the altar if we felt close to God, way in the back if we didn’t. And each week we studied the Bible about a daily relation with God through Christ. At about week five one man stopped us all and asked, “Do you mean that we can really have a daily relationship with Jesus Christ?” It took repeated exposure to the same message for him to get it. And then it was as if someone had turned on flood lights. He could finally see what was always there.
Here’s the light of Lent: Sin leads to our spiritual death BUT Jesus Christ defeated sin and death on the cross. When we receive Jesus Christ, he makes us CLEAN and we start life over, but this time with Christ alive in us. We are changed, so we can steer the course that leads to life. We come again to the cross so that we can know we are really clean and really alive!
My prayer is that this season you will discover again, your new life in Christ.
Yours in Christ,
Do you ever feel just plain worn out? I don’t mean the fatigue of one hard day’s work, or even a week of a pressing schedule. I mean that deep down bone tired you feel after an extended period of stress, anxiety, or hard work. Did you ever feel that way? Sure.
I read recently this statement, “Christians are big on systems. There are ten steps toward a happy marriage, five ways to know God’s will, ...six steps toward a more effective prayer life.” Like the rest of American culture Christians like to know what we can do in sequential steps and we’d like the same kind of advice in handling stress. Sometimes ten steps is too many. Sometimes what we are called to do is to persevere, and to trust.
Then I read this short account. A lawyer shared his prayer life with his friend, “I thought my problems with prayer were due to not knowing the system. So I read this book, learned the rules and determined that now I could really pray. I went into my office early, got out the book, and began to pray. It was the worst prayer time I ever had.”
This gentleman forgot something very important. God is not a system. God is a person. Systems have their place but they can not replace relationship. We can learn a lot about praying that can be helpful, but never forget to persevere and to trust.
Isaiah 40:31 reads, “Those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary. They will walk and not faint.”
God gives strength to his children as they wait upon him. He hasn’t lost sight of you. He is not ignoring your need or your cry for help. Wait on the Lord. He will answer.
Yours in Christ,
~ Pastor Byron
Dear Friends -
Standing at the beginning of truly new experience is an awesome thing. I remember my parents leaving me in my dorm room, and there I was starting college. I remember the organ swell, and seeing Melanie on her father’s arm stepping into the church. I was getting married. I remember the nurse place a tiny bundle in my arms. I was a father.
Every one of these events was entirely new to me. In every case it was a new start.
A new beginning often requires new resources. Lamentations 3:22, 23 says “His (God’s) compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.” The idea is not that God’s faithfulness is something we’ve never experienced before. Rather, the idea is that God is always RENEWING his grace - it is never in short supply, or used up.
The image is borrowed from the Exodus. The Israelites cried out to God in the desert for food. In the morning a substance completely new to them was found on the ground. It was called Manna. A little like bread is was God’s provision of food.
The provision of Manna was not a one time experience. The Israelites did not gather it up and make it last. Instead, Manna was provided fresh and new every morning.
What did Lamentations say, “His compassions are new every morning.”
It’s like the flow of a river. If you watch a river flow past, there is always new water flowing in to take the place of the water that just flowed passed. That is how God provides compassion. There is always a new supply coming to us.
Someone has said, “A thirsty man does not measurably diminish the flow of a river, even though he drinks his fill.” Instead of exhausting the supply, the river keeps coming. You can drink and satisfy your thirst, and when you are thirsty again, drink again. The river provides a new supply.
“His compassions never fail. They are new every morning: great is your faithfulness.”
As a new year dawns I want to encourage you to think about that image. You may or may not be thinking about New Year’s Resolutions. You may or may not be facing a new experience. But whatever your situation, God’s compassions ARE new every morning. They never fail, never run out. He’s always adding a new supply.
Why not think on this image of God’s faithfulness and let his unfailing faithfulness be the starting point of your new year?
December means Advent and Advent means we are looking forward to the celebration of the birth of Christ and the Coming of our King!
We’ve had a stressful year: the election, economic change, and more. But this season means we are looking forward to good things: to what God has already done and hope in what God has promised he will do. And that is reason for JOY!
Everyone is thinking of Christmas, buying gifts, baking, and then there are the parties, concerts and programs our children or grandchildren are in. All these things grow out of the center of the season. All, in their own way add to its joy.
And the center of it all is a baby in a manger. Luke 2:6,7 tells us the fact of Jesus’ birth. “While they were there (in Bethlehem) the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in clothes and laid him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn.” Jesus was born. He was born in Bethlehem. He was cradled in a manger and sheltered in a stable or barn. Even at his birth the world didn’t have room for him.
But Luke goes further. Luke 2:11 tells us WHY Jesus was born. “Today, in the city of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord.” From the very beginning of Jesus’ life he is our Savior; he is Christ, he is Lord.
At Christmas we understandably focus on the baby in the manger. Jesus’ birth is what we celebrate. And the birth of a child is something we always celebrate. Add to this Jesus’ humble beginnings and the image of his loving mother and earthly father caring for him, angels announcing his birth and you have a pretty amazing thing to celebrate.
We need to look through the manger to the reason the Son of God took the step of entering our world as a baby. He came to be our Savior. Hebrews 2:14 says, “Since the children (that’s us) have flesh and blood, he too (that’s Jesus) shared in their humanity so that by his death he might destroy the one who holds the power of death - that is the devil.” Like every human, Jesus the Son of God, entered life through birth. We celebrate his birth but not in isolation. It’s the beginning of his work. Like every human, Jesus the Son of God, died, but his death was for us. He took the penalty of our sin, and so destroyed the power of sin and death.
So as we celebrate the birth of Jesus we are looking ahead to the entire work of Jesus - culminating at the cross and the empty tomb. He’s not just a baby. He’s the Savior, Christ the Lord. That is something to celebrate!
“Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good. His love endures forever!” Ps 136:1 As I am writing this article the maple tree across the street has reached is full splendor of fall foliage. It is bright red and keeps almost all its leaves until all have turned crimson. It is beautiful. It is one thing for which I give thanks every year at this time.
Thanksgiving day is coming and with it the launch of the full holiday season: Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years. I’d like to encourage you to start early this year. Not buying gifts, but practicing thankfulness.
Do you have something for which to give thanks? I’m sure you do. You may also have sorrows, and burdens, but you have blessings as well. Can you name them?
Start with something close at hand. Something basic, fundamental, everyday. In fact, so mundane that you think it is trivial to mention as a blessing for which you are thankful.
Now, try to imagine how your life would be different without that one thing. Suddenly even the most familiar and taken-for-granted things become rich blessings. And when these mundane things take on their true character in our eyes, we have a real chance to grow in thankfulness.
I sat in on the Disciple Sunday School class a few weeks ago. Ann Voskamp said something very profound on the video. I wrote it down as carefully as I could. “Gratitude is not just remembering things. Gratitude is memory of God’s heart.” (from One Thousand Gifts.)
You see, true gratitude moves us past the gift to the giver. And in the case of God it reminds us of his heart. He loves us. And his love endures forever. As we practice gratitude, our thanksgiving will have a profound impact on our spiritual life. Our faith will grow because we will recognize God’s care and remember his heart. Our hope will be rekindled because we will know we are in God’s hands. Our joy will bubble up like a fountain, because God is good and we will know he’s good to us.
Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year’s can be difficult times for some. Grief is more sharply felt, we miss family and friends separated by distance. Those struggling financially can feel the limits more painfully. We need to care for and support those struggling with this season with our words, prayers and perhaps a hug.
And we need to practice giving thanks. Why wait to the last minute. Now is the time to Give thanks to the Lord for he is good. His love endures forever.
Sunday, October 2 is World Communion Sunday. This Sunday we remember that Christians around the world are one, because we are all loved and redeemed by the love of Christ.
It is God’s love and grace that frees us to love him in return. Jesus said the first and greatest commandment is this, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind and with all
To say that we love something means we value it. We can use the term in so many ways. “I love this new shirt,” probably means we think we look really good in it. “I love my new TV,” means my shows are more enjoyable because of the great picture. Of course, we express love in much more significant ways. “I love my wife (or husband),” is an expression of giving ourselves because we find them so attractive, kind, funny, smart, devoted, in short lovable.
God says love me with all you are, nothing held back. And that kind of love can be given only to the one who is of matchless value. I am to love God with all I am because God is worthy of all I am.
He gives us life in the first place. He sustains our life. He brings blessing that result in joy in life. And he redeems us so that we have life that never ends.
Now I admit that a lot of this may sound a little abstract. Knowing I am supposed to love God doesn’t automatically mean I do. In fact, I may find that I love other things, that are much more immediate to me much more.
But then I think of this - that Jesus Christ truly loves me. He truly loves you. You are precious to him. He finds value in you, and his great desire is to love you so much that you will learn to love him in return.
An old story tells of a boy whose home was lost in a fire along with his family. Only the boy was saved when a man climbed the drain pipe up the side of the house to the window where the boy stood and pull him out. After a time a hearing was held to determine who would have custody of the boy. Several couples offered to bring him to their home. They could feed, shelter and educate him, making him part of their family. After several requests a lone man stood and walked to the front of the court room. “I would like to raise the boy and make him my son,” he said. “And what can you offer him?” asked the judge. The man held up his bandaged hands, burned while rescuing the child. The boy ran forward and gently caressed those beautiful scared hands.
He had come to love the one who loved him. So can we.
September marks the end of summer, and the beginning of so much. School starts again (to the dismay of students and joy of parents everywhere), and with it, we return to the less free-wheeling schedule of catching the bus, and doing homework. Camping is over but football begins. Dance classes, marching band, bowling start; the list goes on.
Did you notice how much of these beginnings is not really “new?” Instead, it is a return to something that is familiar, and what we’ve done before, what we looked forward to. Its really starting over.
You know, that’s not a bad idea in terms of our daily drive to be faithful disciples of Jesus Christ. Rally Day is Sept. 11 and the Sunday school and worship schedules change to the fall times on that day. (Sun school at 9:30, worship at 10:45) Sunday school classes start meeting in earnest on Sept. 18, with every class in its room, praying, sharing, opening the Bible and learning to apply God’s truth to the questions of living.
It’s a great time for all of us to “start over,” and I want to encourage you to do just that. Maybe summer saw you traveling, vacationing, visiting family and you didn’t attend worship as regularly for a few weeks. Maybe it was your Sunday school class that ended and so you didn’t attend Summer Sunday school. Now is the time to start again, to pursue the goal that Christ has laid out for us, and toward which he is leading us.
Do you remember the story of Elijah on the mountain hearing the still small voice of God? Elijah had been threatened by Queen Jezebel. He was having success leading Israel back to the Lord and away from false gods she worshiped, and Jezebel threatened to kill him. The stress was too much and Elijah ran away. (You don’t hear many stories about God’s heroes literally running away, but it’s in the Bible. 1 Kings 19:1-15) God met Elijah on his journey miraculously feeding and strengthening him. But that wasn’t enough.
Elijah kept running. He ran all the way to Mount Horeb, the place where Moses met God in the burning bush. There God spoke to him, and Elijah found the strength to head back to Israel and continue God’s work.
Elijah needed to start over. Not because he failed. Just because that’s what we humans all have to do from time to time. And this is a great time to start again. At your church. Rejoin the choir or handbells, or join for the first time. Return to Sunday school or make it a new practice. Come to small group. There are lots of opportunities. Its your chance to start again on the path you know is so important.
Write something about yourself. No need to be fancy, just an overview.